Maybe you’ve heard the term, but aren’t quite sure what it means. In short, an unplugged wedding is one where guests are asked to put away phones, tablets, and cameras, and simply be present.
As a wedding photographer, I've seen firsthand how going unplugged can completely change the energy of a ceremony, for the better. Here’s why this might be one of the best choices you make while planning your day.
What Does "Unplugged" Actually Mean?
There’s a range, from fully unplugged to just-the-ceremony. Here are a few common ways couples go about it:
Totally Unplugged All Weekend:
I’ve photographed weddings where guests leave their phones in lockboxes for the whole weekend. It’s extreme, but for some couples, it creates the deep connection they’re craving.
Unplugged Ceremony Only:
This is the most popular option — and my favorite. Couples often use signage or a quick announcement from the officiant to let guests know phones should stay tucked away during the ceremony. Some even invite guests to take a quick photo before the ceremony starts, and then put their phones away.
From Dayana & Rodolfo's wedding at Waterfall Lodge & Spa in the Santa Cruz Mountains.
Why I Love Unplugged Ceremonies (and You Might Too)
📸 Better Photos:
Guests looking at you with actual eye contact beats a wall of phones every time. That moment of your mom smiling as you walk down the aisle? You want to see her face, not her phone.
💬 Fewer Ruined Shots:
I can’t count how many first kiss photos have been wrecked by someone jumping into the aisle with a smartphone. You’re hiring a pro — let me get the shot for you.
❤️ Real Presence:
Guests are more engaged, emotional, and with you in the moment when they’re not fumbling with tech. It feels more intimate, more emotional, and more special.
What About the Rest of the Day?
I don’t mind if guests take photos during the reception — as long as no one is blocking key moments (I’m looking at you, Uncle Bob standing in front of me during the first dance 😅).
I’ve even been asked to snap a quick group photo on someone’s iPhone, and I’m always happy to help.
It’s totally okay to find a balance that works for you.
“she really got what we were looking for in photos and she captured truly beautiful candid moments”
From Michelle & Andy's wedding at Cavallo Point Lodge. See more of their Bay Area Unplugged wedding by clicking on the images above.
How to Politely Ask Guests to Unplug
Worried about making it awkward? You’re not alone. Here are some gentle ways couples let guests know it’s an unplugged ceremony:
- Signage at the entrance (bonus if it matches your decor)
- Officiant announcement before the ceremony starts
- Note in your wedding program or invitation suite
- Wedding website blurb, especially for guests who love to plan ahead
- “Last call for photos” moment where guests are invited to take one or two photos before putting phones away
Most people are happy to unplug once they know it’s meaningful to you.
In the End, It’s Your Day
Whether you go fully unplugged, partially, or not at all — it’s all about creating the kind of experience you want.
But if you’re still deciding? I can say from experience: an unplugged ceremony almost always leads to better photos, fewer distractions, and moments you and your guests will truly remember.
From Sara & Kami's wedding at the Seymour Marine Discovery Center in Santa Cruz.
Not sure if an unplugged ceremony is right for your day? Let’s chat about what would work best for your vibe. I’m here to help!